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Wednesday, October 05, 2005

It's drizzling now. Yeah. I want to rant, curse, scream, etc., etc,... Want to know why? Because it was raining heavily as I made my way home from Bishan, and as I stopped under my void deck, the rain stopped. Now isn't that a bitch? And don't try to pacify me by saying I should enjoy the water, as I'm an Aquarian. That I should be a pacifist too won't stop me from throttling you.

Well, and I'm still pissed off at the person who bitched at me, while not knowing the entire story. She says I've been a prick to my twin brother for always trying to find fault with him, for calling her out for a drink at the Prata Shop in Thomson at 3.40am, that I should settle my personal issues, etc., etc,... Well, about the 3.40am thing, I was in the wrong. Not everyone is a night owl like my bros and I. But hey, it's only asking, so you don't have to get all riled and stuff. If you don't want then fine. What the hell's the problem?

Now getting to my the point where I'm a prick to my younger brother. It would help if I told every one my side of the story, and you decide who's the prick.

1) He was the one who lent the PS2 to his friend for 3 months, and despite my parents and I asking him to bring it back after the first few weeks, he did not. And when the PS2 came back I found that all my saved game data had been deleted from the memory card. And my brother's lame excuse to my Mom after I complained? "I thought Ben didn't need it anymore." Like what the f**k is that supposed to mean? It's not his right to delete my data, and let his friend use our PS2. Come on, if his friend wanted to save his game data he should have bought his own memory card right? 300+ hours of game play gone like that. Imagine if I was earning like $5 an hour for playing, that would sum up to around $1500. And the thing is I never allowed my brother to delete the data, and also that he never apologised to me for deleting the data.

2) Why should my brother be avoiding me in the first place, unless he did something wrong? If he did, then he should own up and stop being such a coward. I won't hit him if he didn't piss me off. Come on, the times I almost hit him were the times he either insulted our parents or did something that really pissed me off. And did I mention that he loves bad mouthing my parents in front of friends, but acts like an angel in front them? It's like what-the-hell man, stop being a hypocrit.

3) If my brother wants to bitch about me, why can't I bitch back about him? Is there a problem? And by the way, he started the bitching first. You can't expect me to just sit there and let him bitch, bitch and bitch without me saying anything right? I've been misunderstood by people for too damned long just because I've kept quiet and not fought back. So now that I do, I'm labelled "a prick"? Somehow that sounds so wrong. Plus if you want to bitch about someone, get your facts right before even opening your mouth or using your hand to type or write.

And now, I would like to highlight some interesting things about bitching.
I call them Ben's Laws on Bitching.

I) If you bitch about a person/company/whatever, don't expect people to keep quiet and take the bitching, because people will fight back, by bitching or otherwise.

II) Before you bitch, get your facts right, preferably from all sides before saying or writing anything.

III) Always back up your bitching with evidence, or you will look and sound stupid because there will be people who knows what happened.

IV) Don't think you have the upper hand because you're influential. Some people can take you up to Heaven and then down to Hell.

V) Bitching can lead to lawsuits.

VI) He/She who bitches first thinks he/she has the first laugh. But the person who knows the most bitches last and has the last laugh.

VII) Don't bitch, and your mouth will itch. Bitch a little, people will bicker. Bitch more, and you'd be called a whore. Bitch a lot, and people will buy your body a plot.

That's all folks. Enjoy.

Kenny died at 6:11 am